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Sarah Hader Kluger, LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselor
in New York State

Trust is earned in the smallest of moments. It is earned not through heroic deeds, or even highly visible actions but through paying attention, listening, and gestures of genuine care and connection.
— Brené Brown

I grew up in a working class family, with Deaf parents, in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. In 2002, I graduated from the University of Wisconsin with a bachelor’s degree in Cultural Anthropology and the Comparative Study of Religions.

Soon after, the grandmother who helped raise me was near the end of her life. She drew me close and whispered: “follow your heart, Sarah.” Carried by the wind and with my grandma’s blessing, I moved to Denver, Colorado, in 2004 and began an ever-evolving career in the marketing and communications industry, working closely with non-profit agencies, religious organizations, and local governments. Truly, “it was the best of times, it was the worst of times.” I made dear life-long friends, got married, and started my own business. I was devastated by the death of my best friend, came to terms with my toxic marriage and got a divorce. I found my first therapist. I started to recognize my unhealthy patterns and learned what “codependent” means. I looked myself in the mirror and realized I did not recognize the person I had become.

When I finally relaxed my grip on the world and turned my focus outward to the natural world, I was able to hear the voice of my authentic self calling. It was weary from being ignored for so long, but it never abandoned me. It called me to change horses in midstream, to become a mental health counselor and engage in the important work of “soul-tending,” supporting my fellow human beings to find and bravely walk their own path through this world.    

In 2019, I graduated with a Master’s of Arts in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Regis University in Denver. During my internship I had the opportunity to work with women who were incarcerated and experiencing serious mental illness. It was a difficult, moving and life-changing experience.

In 2020, my husband and I moved to Rochester, New York, and I began working as a mental health counselor in private practice. We welcomed Felix to our little family in November 2021 — my greatest teacher and my greatest joy!

I specialize in grief counseling and follow the idea of “companioning” the bereaved – being present to and honoring grief rather than treating it like a problem to be solved. Someone once asked me: "who do you think you are, to take away the suffering of another person?" That question shapes my work as a therapist. I don't have a magic wand and I can not take away your suffering. I CAN help you discover ways to cope with your suffering, to allow it to work you so that you grow in a new direction, finding a new way to walk your path through this life.